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Don’t Forget to Laugh …

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Hey people, nice having you back in here. Hope everything’s going well and fantastic. As the topic is given by one of my friend to talk about was about human lifestyle. He shot a question to me ” Why do people always look stressed out ? Why people always are busy in something rather than enjoying the world’s beauty and life’s beauty ? Why are they not like even caring about people who are right beside them ? ” and I was not able to answer. His question made me not to sleep for some days until I got the answer. Imagine and see what if your friend as this same exact question to you and you are responsible to answer his question ? What would be your answer or what would be your reaction ? Crazy right , I was thinking about this for days and i ended up finding it which is a very sensible and acceptable for me and to him too. How about you ? Can you accept the fact that I am about to share? Let’s see.

Well according to what he have asked me, I recently watched a speech given by Dr. Kader Ibrahim in a event in 2012 about laughing , thinking and succeeding. I felt the topic was interesting and even I am great fan of his speeches to.That speech was an eye opener to me where I got my answers to my friend’s question.

We people nowadays forget to laugh. Okay ‘why suddenly about laugh?’ you might be thinking, that is the main problem with our people. Yes , laughter is a gift from the GOD to us which reduces endorphin, reduces pressure, reduces stress, increases mind calmness, stables our mind, body and even our soul. For an example i will be talking to some of my friends or other people outside. I will be talking to them while thinking about a simple joke to make the conversation much more interesting but when I tell the joke out, it only ended up making one or two people to laugh. You know that time the feeling when the others don’t even respond or don’t laugh for the joke…. okay just leave it . May be they might not feel it funny or they don’t understand . Then again I will try again for a better joke and the same thing happens over and over again. I was thinking then what’s wrong with them? Is it my joke is a lame one or they are not finding it funny? Then only i realized that whatever things I crack my head to make them laugh is not gonna work because they are people who don’t laugh at all. You may ask weather is this a big issue of not laughing for my joke ? No it’s not about laughing for my joke, it’s about just laughing which can do wonders.

Trust me, laughing does a big part in your life switching bad to good. More on laughing issues nowadays people have got no time to laugh. It’s like NO TIME. Crazy right ?! Well I think in future, knowing about laughing does benefit humans and and it should be done everyday at least once like yoga, people would set timetable to laugh. Just imagine ; Oh god! People will laugh everyday by time set in the morning for 5 minutes and night before sleep for 5 minutes. It’ll totally look very insane won’t it? So, what am I trying to say here is laugh, laugh without any restrictions. Laugh happily and openly. Laughing doesn’t kills you ; it makes you lively and and your live tremendously superb.

To conclude, I think we all should take this quite very importantly. Let’s make it a habit to interact with everyone with a smile and try making others laugh or at least smile. It does make a good change in you and others. Think about it and leave comments below, share to people who you think should change their habit, keep updated with upcoming posts something like this . Thank you.

Sathishkumar.M

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A New World of No EXPECTATIONS…

Hello Champs… How are you all doing..? Hope it’s good… So you might have many ideas when you first saw the title of this article like it’s some kind of a moral story or something else… Nearly but let’s talk about some issues… I would tell most of the problems which cause outside in the world is because of one thing which people would think ” Uhhh..? Seriously ??? ” and stuffs like that… yeah that is the EXPECTATION…

Okay, expectation means an action or a thing you were looking forward from the other person. An expectation is what you want from others by not letting them know. An expectation is what a person wants from the other for their own satisfaction .

You might be thinking , Why? What’s wrong with expectations and stuffs… but let me tell ask you one thing and think about it .. Have you got everything you expected in life ? Did you get whatever you have expected from the particular person. ? Most of the answers are no . Because we don’t get all things all times … Let me tell you one simple process of this expectation which can cause problems…

Firstly, we are humans who seek for love, passion, feelings, materials and many more things. We are getting locked up in this when we seek love and attention. When we expect attention from the person who you need to, he end up not giving the attention. Then you, who expected that attention will tend to get hurt , you would show faces , you might even go under depression if you are a sensitive people.So, as these happens you can clearly see that this is not anyone’s mistake rather than you, yourself.You were the one who expected, you were the one who wanted the result.

Expecting, expectation is not wrong and it’s not unusual. It is very usual and it is very normal. You should know that no one is gonna know that you were hurt just by no fulfilling you expectation. Even they get to know that you were hurt just by that, they can’t do anything cause it’s not their choice; it’s you and your choice.

Now, you might have a clear picture about what is like expectation life like. Didn’t you ? Let me tell you one thing, are you a person who always depend on others? If you are you should change yourself. You should be independent. I am telling to be independent through emotions and inner self.Try not to expect anything. Try not to expect anything from anyone. Try not to expect anything from even yourself.

Let go. Let go of everything. Come one, you are here to live the life. Not to hang on somebody and get unwanted results.Life is all about how your carry out yourself. Emotions and feelings is how you manage yourself.Live a life where you don’t have a stressful and tight schedules and follow ups. Kill expectation in you , and see the most beautiful result throughout your life. You will have no jealousy, angry, grudges, tension, pain , and many more. All you have is happiness and peace of mind….

All you have to do is expect one things that is  :

Expect to not expect anything from anyone and even yourself….

Sathishkumar.M

A new Dawn for his love…

The time when i was reading a book, i just realised that time that i was supposed write an article to you guys. Then i thought , why always an article. So, then i decided to type out a story.

Now, this story is about a guy who literally got no one and keeps his feelings and emotions to himself. Not only that, he doesn’t voice out anything and he remains smiling all the time. One thing about him is, he cries alot when he really gets hurt alone in his room. That’s the best part, cause when he cries he releases the tension and stress he has got to hold on. Before i briefly explain about him and what he do you should know his name which is Stalin. Stalin loves to have alot of friends and loves himself to be surrounded with good people but somehow he could only dream about it. It was because he doesn’t confidently mix with people and tend to talk to them. So all the time he have been left out. Stalin is a person who always lives in his dreamland where he lives his life of dream. At times he asks himself this question ” Am I capable for what I dream and what I want in my life ? ” and he ended up getting no answer.

One day, while he was walking along the streets, he saw a couple who was walking sitting on a bench near the street he was walking. He saw them holding hands and lying on each others shoulders. That made him wish to have the best life partner for him in life. As he was thinking about that he was crossing over the road to the other side but then he heard a loud horn sound and in a split of second it was black out.

When he opened his eyes, he realized he was on a bed surrounded with two nurse injecting him and asking for some details about him. Stalin met an accident till he was hurt very badly. After passing his details to the nurse, he was given a heavy dose of painkiller and sleeping pills. He woke up the next day and saw a note piece beside him written on it that ” You are well now nothing to worry and you will be healed in three weeks. You will be shift to your home in another week.”. He was like who is this and he asked a nurse about who wrote that note? Well the nurse replied……………………………( to be continued )….

Sathishkumar.M

What , Why and How…

Trust me this is a wise question from me to you guys… Are you relaxed and calmed ? The truth is you are not . You people are always thinking and thinking and thinking… No that’s not the way seriously … We people always request and expect for rest in everything if not the first thing which will pop out in your mind will be ” Am I a machine ? Come on i need a break … ” isn’t that true… Come on brain has the same feel…

To let you all know simply, the brain is a combination of two extremes which i describe as the calculus ( left brain ) and the painter ( right brain ). There are a lot of interesting facts of brain which can make you guys mesmerized about it. So , as i was saying the brain is also not a machine and it need a lot of relaxation and calmness. We humans nowadays forgot that we are humans and we are being like a robot .

A simple thing to support that fact is , the world has changed a lot nowadays where we humans are running a race of life. Which is not supposed to happen. We were born for a purpose and to enjoy life but we are frustrating ourselves and we are not knowing the importance of knowledge. Knowledge has also become a mechanism to memorize . Its not the way . I just wanna create awareness to be a true total human and not to be a robot .

Just relax , realize that you are breathing and the warmth of your breath is so magical, realize that your both feet touches the ground, realize that your cell can feel the heat and cold temperature. Meditate and connect yourself with the nature. By just relaxing your mind , body and spirit can really change your entire life . You will enjoy it , you will live the life lively and you will know the purpose of your life…

Sathishkumar.M

Why not now…

That day when i was waiting in the car in front of the traffic signal, i noticed a thing which was above the traffic lights there was this timing board which times for the green light and red light… So i noticed that it took nearly 120 seconds to change to green and when it has already changed to green it took only 20 seconds… This explained to me that we have to wait for some time to actually achieve that 20 seconds and pass that traffic …

Life is also the same . We seldom get opportunities. For that opportunity we should have a very strong patience. For an example to make you understand more is let’s take a singer. A singer who is getting demotivated day by day by others who really doesn’t know what he can do and what is his talent . They start demotivating him that he can do and he is not able to do while people laugh at him . But all his voice in him is telling that ‘ I will have one day . And on that day people are going to see me who I am ‘. And this thing keeps going on and on again. One day this feller will get fed up and we will be giving up.

Just imagine, after around 3 years of his desire he is given a mic at a stage to just what he can do . That time his heart just tells ‘ Do not waste time . Show up who you are and what you can do ‘. When this happens on that time he will just sing the best he could sing. Then the claps and appreciations he get will be the best feeling ever in his life. Then goes his life in a different style.

I just wanna tell that never miss and hesitate in any opportunity you get. Its a one time event which can change your life totally different. So just be prepared and wait for the day . You will reach that one day anytime and and show up who you are and what you can do . Live life lively to lead a happy life, a passionate life.

Nothing comes easy and nothing is impossible. If everything comes in easy there will be no interest in you life. Just keep in your mind when you are in age 63 , you are deciding to write your own biography book . At that time you must have your own solid interesting story . So , for that day , you make your life interesting and design your life…

Heart full of love ,

Sathishkumar.M

An Introduction Which Needs No Title…

Hello Champs… How are you all doing there ? Hope it’s always doing good… I am Sathishkumar Marieappan from Malaysia who is still studying in the high school… I am a guy who literally loves creative professions like writing , singing , designing and many more… Now I am quite excited about this site and things that I am going to do in the future here… Yeah it’s the school holiday and I really happy to take the initiative to give out something productive and useful… Here , Let me tell some things about this site . Here is where I am going to share and post some stories and funny facts and even articles in my own styles about the lifestyle , the positivity , the visionary livings… For now seriously I got no any ideas about what to post . In that case I would love to have some suggestions and the question for the answer you are seeking for in the comment box below… Sometimes we people feel lazy and uninterested to learn something new or make efforts to get our answers , so I can help to do that for you… Whatever is asked below will be answered in my very own way which can make you feel interested to visit in here…. Hope so.. Take good care and live the way you dream … stay in touch…